The Lies We Tell Ourselves

The Lies We Tell Ourselves by Maura Pierlot (Big Ideas Press) PB RRP $22.99

ISBN 9780645099836

Reviewed by Kylie Buckley

Harley is struggling with the recent death of her nan as well as her parent’s deteriorating marriage. Despite this, she is looking forward to starting Year 10 and, even though her best friend did not contact her over the school break, she is optimistic about the year ahead. Harley sets her intentions for the year: get a job, get a boyfriend, get a life.

 

When Harley establishes a friendship with Carter, the hot new guy at school, she cannot help but imagine a future with him as her boyfriend. However, her critical inner voice tells her she needs to lose weight and reinvent herself. Harley’s hopes are high. But, why is her manifesting failing? Why are her friendships crumbling? Why is everything going wrong?

 

The Lies We Tell Ourselves is a young adult novel about staying true to yourself and the futile nature of seeking approval from others. This coming-of-age narrative is written in the first person by 15-year-old Harley and gives off 2004, American teen comedy film, Mean Girl vibes. Its themes include body image, toxic friendships, first love, belonging, family dynamics and grief. The Lies We Tell Ourselves is recommended for an audience aged 13 years and older.